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THE TOP 40
The 40 things every woman must have by the time she turns 40
  1. Peace of mind ( and a piece of property)
  2. A will
  3. Willpower
  4. A savings account in your own name ( and an IRA
    in the name of your future security).
  5. A mammogram
  6. A manicure ( not to mention a pedicure, a facial and a
    massage- all on the same day).
  7. A set of matching luggage.
  8. A ticket to some exotic place to unpack it.
  9. A great hairdresser,gynecologist and stockbroker.
  10. A passionate, fiery, unforgettable love affair
  11. A little black dress that makes yu look 5 pounds thinner
  12. A sense of humor,style and purpose.
  13. A selfish streak
  14. A spiritual foundation that gets you through a very long
    day without going crazy.
  15. A facial foundation that gets you through a very long
    day without going ashy.
  16. A good bra
  17. A good spa
  18. A library card ( used often)
  19. A credit card ( used sparingly)
  20. At least one person in your ife who says. "You call, I come.
  21. Good body language ( multilingual!)
  22. A broken heart and the knowledge you can survive it.
  23. A cause celebre ( domestic violence, infant mortality,
    save the whales- your choice.)
  24. A personal relationship with God
  25. A personal trainer
  26. Selective amnesia ("What Saturday morning meeting?"
  27. Gall.
  28. A good skin-regimen.
  29. The ability to converse on any subject without
    benefit of concrete knowledge or access to facts.
  30. A shocking secret
  31. A pair of silk pajamas.
  32. A lifetime membership in at least one organization
    dedicated to uplifting Black folks ( e.g. National
    Council of Negro Women, The NAACP).
  33. The phone number of someone who is good with their
    hands.
  34. At least one drop-dead,don't-speak-to-me-because-you-
    know-you-don't-know-me geogeous photo of yourself.
  35. A friendship that has stood the test of time.
  36. One last chance to tell the guy you were crazy about
    in your 20's who treated you like cigarette ashes on
    the floor what you were too dumb to know when he walked
    out with your heart in his hands: " Thank you, thank
    you, thank you".
  37. A soul mate.
  38. Faith, hope and a good fantasy.
  39. A dream
  40. A plan to make it come true.
    by Laura B. Randolph


    Although i have accomplished the majority of these things,
    through my experience with God i have....
    learned to put superficial things on the side and not
    "worry so much about mundane things" such as
    #1 my final home is in heaven
    #10 God sent me a passionate man -
    so i forgot if i EVER did have a passionate love affair.
    #13 selfish yes, but for the Lord- i want all that He gives me.
    #15 beauty is only skin deep.
    #19 had credits cards, got me in trouble because i was in the world
    and had not trusted God to supply my needs.
    #20 I call on Jesus, He listens and comes to my rescue.
    #25 only the Bible can train me
    #30 The Bible says to confess our faults to each other.
    #26 don't claim "amnesia" that is the work of the enemy- i am
    "always aware and ready to serve God when He calls.
    #34 had that picture, but my heart is what is "drop dead georgeous"
    #36 That doesn't matter,the Bible taught me to be forgiving and loving.
    #38 i don't have to fantasize-God planned my life before i was born.
    #40 don't have to worry, cause God will make it come true

    TWENTY CANS OF SUCCESS
    1. Why should i say I can't when the Bible says I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength ( Phil 4:13)?
    2. Why should i lack when i know that God shall supply all my needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus (Phil 4:19)?
    3. Why should I fear when the Bible says God has not given me a spirit of fear, but of power, love and a sound mind (2 Tim. 1:7)?
    4. Why should I lack faith to fulfill my calling knowing that God has allotted to me a measure of faith ( Rom. 12:3)?
    5. Why should I be weak when the Bible says that the Lord is the strength of my life and that I will display strength and take action because I know God ( Psalm 27:1; Dan. 11:32)?
    6. Why should I allow Satan supremacy over my life when He that is in me is greater than he that is in the world? (1John 4:4)?
    7. Why should I accept defeat when the Bible says that God always leads me in triumph(2 Cor2:14)?
    8. Why should I lack wisdom when Christ became wisdom to me
      from God and God gives wisdom to me generously when I ask Him for it ( 1 Cor. 1:30; Jas. 1:5)?
    9. Why should I be depressed when I can recall to mind God's
      lovingkindness, compassion and faithfulness and have hope ( Lam.3:21-23)?
    10. Why should I worry and fret when I can cast all my anxiey
      on Christ who cares for me ( 1 Pet. 5:7)?
    11. Why should I ever be in bondage knowing that there is liberty
      where the Spirit of the Lord is (2 Cor. 3:17; Gal. 5:1)?
    12. Why should I feel condemned when the Bible says I am not
      condemned because I am in Christ ( Rom. 8:1)?
    13. Why should I feel alone when Jesus said He is with me
      always and He will never leave me nor forsake me (Matt. 28:20; Heb. 13:5)?
    14. Why should I feel accursed or that I am the victim of
      bad luck when the Bible says that Christ redeemed me from the
      curse of the law that I might receive His Spirit(Gal. 3:13,14)?
    15. Why should I be discontented when I,like Paul, can
      learn to be content in all my circumstance (Phil 4:11)?
    16. Why should I feel worthless when Christ became sin
      on my behalf that I might become the righteousness
      of God in Him ( 2 Cor. 5:21)?
    17. Why should I have a persecution complex knowing that
      nobody can be against me when God is for me (Rom. 8:31)?
    18. Why should I be confused when God is the author
      of peace and He gives me knowledge through HIs indwelling
      Spirit ( 1 Cor. 14:33; 2:12)?
    19. Why should I feel like a failure when I am a conqueror
      in all things through Christ ( Rom. 8:37)?
    20. Why should I let the pressures of life bother me when
      I can take courage knowing that Jesus has overcome the world
      and its tribulations (Eph. 4:27; James 4:7)?
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